Well, it turns out me and my honey buns had a little "tiff" yesterday. It started with her calling me a couple of times after lunch and asking what I was planning for the evening, and saying she wanted to "do something." Now, of course it came down to me thinking of stuff for her and taking her there (yep, driving too) and I didn't want to do that, especially for a "holiday" I consider totally made up and consumeristic. So I told her to think of something, and when she didn't want to do that, told her we weren't doing anything and told her why.
HOO BOY. She just about unleashed the fucking fury.
She was mad at me the whole evening, not talking to me, crying her eyes out in the closet when that didn't work, the whole nine yards. I had to make up, and as it always is, we just have different priorities - she wants to do something, anything, on the specific date, and I usually don't. She said I never want to celebrate anything, and I told her that I want to do it on my terms - the money that would go on that specific date could be used for something else, say a weekend trip to Florida. She said she doesn't necessarily want to spend money, but wants the day to be special. And handed me the bag, essentially saying "And its your job to make it special."
Well anyway, we made up and she confessed a few more secrets of her own (always happens when a girl cries and you comfort her, I guess they feel more open when they're vulnerable) and she didn't have to sleep on the couch after all.
Oh and I called my folks and my Mom was gushing about the expensive jewelry set my Dad gave her.
HOO BOY. She just about unleashed the fucking fury.
She was mad at me the whole evening, not talking to me, crying her eyes out in the closet when that didn't work, the whole nine yards. I had to make up, and as it always is, we just have different priorities - she wants to do something, anything, on the specific date, and I usually don't. She said I never want to celebrate anything, and I told her that I want to do it on my terms - the money that would go on that specific date could be used for something else, say a weekend trip to Florida. She said she doesn't necessarily want to spend money, but wants the day to be special. And handed me the bag, essentially saying "And its your job to make it special."
Well anyway, we made up and she confessed a few more secrets of her own (always happens when a girl cries and you comfort her, I guess they feel more open when they're vulnerable) and she didn't have to sleep on the couch after all.
Oh and I called my folks and my Mom was gushing about the expensive jewelry set my Dad gave her.
I'm working on a piece about relationships and men's issues awareness too, I should have it posted in a couple of days.
ReplyDeleteDude you should adopt a Tom Leykis zero tolerence policy for that kind of behavior, or else she will keep doing it. And if if she does then DTB!!
ReplyDeleteI'm glad I don't have a girlfriend.
ReplyDeleteThe fact that more and more guys like me are saying that shows how bad things are getting with women.
The natural male/female relationship is the product of millions of years of evolution. Even 10 generations of feminism will fail to fully break the `traditional' instinctive behavior patterns. It will however continue to cause disruption and unhappiness to family and social life of any nation infected with it's ideology, as women `aspire' to something unnatural.
ReplyDeleteValentines is a competition with women. They all want to outdo their friends with bragging about what their boyfriends did for them.
ReplyDeleteGood stuff Pete, don't take any Bullshit.
ReplyDeleteMichel
Good stuff Pete, don't take any Bullshit.
ReplyDeleteMichel
Good stuff Pete, don't take any Bullshit.
ReplyDeleteMichel
and she didn't have to sleep on the couch after all.
ReplyDeleteFucking cool,dude.
We don't have to sleep on the couch anymore now that we've liberated ourselves from this shit.
Long live masculist liberation.
Thanks guys, it really broke my heart that it came down to the usual shit when I was so happy thinking about how our relationship was "different".
ReplyDeleteFuck a duck.
Women are fucked up skanks,that's why I don't give a shit about them.
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